Top FAQs About My Male Companion Services Answered

I've gathered some frequently asked questions regarding my services as a straight male escort and paid companion. If you have a specific question you'd like me to address, feel free to email me at bowtieschristchurch@gmail.com.

A Little About Me

My name is Mark and I have been running Bowties, which tailors bespoke platonic and intimate experiences for our female clients, for over 4 years now. I am in my mid-forties and I love nothing more than creating the most personalised and client-centric memories for you. I hope I can share a little of what you can expect when you book someone like me to fulfill your innermost desire. You can read more about me here and my services here.

What's the most important thing to keep in mind when considering this?

This is about you and your pleasure. Give some thought to what you'd like to experience, what kind of mood or atmosphere makes you hot, and what type of lover you want me to be for you. Can you verbalise your desires, fears and boundaries? If you have trouble verbalising these, practice telling your favourite pet... if they blush and avoid eye contact thereafter, then you're on the right track.

How much notice is needed to make a booking?

I prefer receiving at least one or two days' notice. This allows me to plan a unique companion experience for you and ensure I am fully prepared. I typically accept a maximum of two bookings per week, so it's important to book in advance.

Do you ever get nervous?

Yes, all the time. I find I get a little nervous meeting people for the first time as I am sure you do. I want to make a good impression and I want to provide the perfect experience for you. As my experience has grown, I become less nervous but I use it that energy o ensure I am prepared for our time together. If you are feeling very nervous, I can assure you I will make you feel at ease and we will do everything at your pace.

How is safety guaranteed?

Safety is an important thread through everything we do, and it covers a broad range of things from physical safety to consent to protection. Here are a few things worth mentioning:

• Your physical safety - you choose and control the location of where and when we meet. If you a trusted best friend let them know where and when we are meeting, but be prepared as they will no doubt want all the details afterwards so too!

• Consent & boundaries - we will define our boundaries together before we begin and I will regularly check in with you to check comfort and consent as we unravel.

• Safe words - depending on our plans for the evening, we will agree a series of safe words or gestures before we begin to allow us to signal appropriately to each other.

• Protection - see below.

Who provides the protection?

As a professional male escort, I will always provide my own condoms and dental dams to ensure our experience is safe for both of us. You are welcome to bring any additional protection you feel comfortable with.

Where do we meet? Do you travel to me?

That's a great question. I only offer out-call services, meaning I will always come to you and do not host anyone at my place. If you're in Christchurch, there are no extra charges for my travel. For locations beyond Christchurch, I will inform you of any additional travel expenses.

If you prefer not to meet at your home, we can arrange to meet at a hotel of your choosing. I am willing to cover the hotel costs on your behalf if you wish to avoid any paper trail back to you.

Do you have a cancellation policy?

Yes, I do. If you cancel your companion experience more than 24 hours in advance, there is no charge. However, if you cancel within 24 hours, you will incur a fee for the first hour of your experience.

What happens if we meet and there’s no spark on either side?

I often receive this question… what if we meet and one of us doesn't feel a connection? If I'm uncomfortable for any reason, I won't initiate the engagement. Should I choose not to continue, there will be no charge for you. However, if you feel uneasy and decide not to proceed for any reason, the fee for the first hour of our engagement is required.

I will always consult with you before we start to ensure you're comfortable moving forward.

How long have you been doing this for?

I saw my first client as a male escort in July of 2022, which was a very interesting experience. I will journal about it shortly, but it was a rather intense experience that had me well out of my comfort zone from the get-go. A baptism of fire of sorts.

How do you get into this line of work?

I was in a sexless marriage for way too long, and I was not willing to give up on that aspect of my life. Coming out of that, it was tough navigating the many terrible dating apps while trying to rebuild my confidence. The reason I do this is likely very similar to the reason why you’re considering my services. This means I understand your "why" very clearly.

I have discovered a few important things through doing this. The first is how much I enjoy providing pleasure to you. I get pleasure from giving pleasure, that is a thing. Secondly, it's not just about the finish, pleasure builds and flows as you discover each other. Prolonged pleasure is usually nicer than a quick finish.

I also wanted to make up for lost time… lol.

Do you do this full time?

No, I have a full-time “normal 9 to 5” outside of this. My normal job is rather boring in comparison to this, and I often feel like Clark Kent during the day and then escaping to my alter ego in the evenings...

How big are you?

I know you want to ask... Let’s say I have only ever received compliments in that regard. I would say I am above average.

I hope I have been able to answer some of your questions about engaging the companion services of a professional straight male escort. I have a few other great blog posts, so be sure to check them out as well.

Thanks for reading this.

Mark