Join Bowties – Redefining Male Companionship in New Zealand
For confident, emotionally intelligent men who value connection, respect, and authenticity.
Bowties was created to offer women a safe, elegant alternative to traditional dating — a space where connection, discretion, and genuine pleasure take priority.
Now, we’re expanding. We’re building a small team of exceptional men who share the same passion for creating meaningful, empowering experiences for women. If you have the right presence, mindset, and respect for this work, we’d love to hear from you.
What Makes a Great Companion
We’re not after perfection; we’re after personality. A great companion listens well, carries himself with quiet confidence, and understands that real intimacy begins with trust. Whether you shine through humour, sensuality, or genuine warmth, the key is authenticity.
What You Can Expect
Bowties provides structure, support, and guidance to help you step into the role professionally:
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Presentation and communication coaching.
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Understanding emotional intelligence and healthy boundaries.
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Training in safety, discretion, and client care.
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Mentorship from someone with real-world experience.
Who We’re Looking For
Men aged 25–55 with emotional maturity, genuine confidence and life experience.
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Well-presented, clean-cut, in good shape, and reliable.
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Strong communicators who can listen, ask thoughtful questions, hold interest through conversation.
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Respectful, discreet, adaptive and self-aware.
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Professionally employed or self-employed.
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Has something interesting about themselves, through life experience, being well-travelled and/or educated.
Experience isn’t essential — the right mindset is.
Requirements & Screening Process
Our clients’ safety and wellbeing come first, so every new companion completes a thorough screening process before joining the Bowties team. You’ll need to:
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Provide a current police clearance (NZ Ministry of Justice Criminal Record Check).
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Regularly complete standard sexual health checks through an approved clinic.
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Attend several interviews, covering communication style, professionalism, and emotional readiness.
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Participate in simulated scenarios to demonstrate comfort, boundaries, and ability to create relaxed, respectful connections.
How to Apply
If this sounds like you, send a short email introduction explaining who you are, what draws you to this work, and what you could bring to the team.
Discretion and confidentiality are guaranteed.