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Step 2: Preparing For Our Time Together

Mark BB

Updated: Jul 28, 2024

So you have taken the first step and have booked some time with me. Perhaps it's your first time with a male companion and you are not entirely sure what to expect when we meet, so I thought I would run through each stage. There are a few practical aspects we need to go over to help us prepare.


  • Making the arrangements

I will always travel to a location of your choosing. This may be a restaurant, bar, your home or hotel room. I can arrange for any reservations and payment transactions, including hotels, should you wish to keep your accounts free of this activity.


If you have any preference about when, how, and how often I may contact you to confirm arrangements please let me know and I will respect this.


  • Before we meet

In the days before, give some thought to what you'd like to do, if you have any specific requirements, anything you want to experience in particular. Equally give some thought to things you don't want to do, don't like, or are out-of-bounds. I will be asking this when we meet.


Obviously hygiene is critical to ensuring a great experience so I always shower immediately before we meet and ask that you do the same. I will be shaved, trimmed, and smelling nice for you.


  • Before we begin

When we meet we will briefly talk through the session, agree the safe word (if needed) and we'll talk through any questions you may have. We'll discuss protection and when it's appropriate to use it.


I will ask you what you like, what turns you on, what turns you off, what your boundaries are. Are there any fantasies you are wanting to play out? Don’t be shy to express these as it allows me insight into what makes you tick, and how I make the time special for you. Are you happy to kiss, how do feel about giving and/or receiving oral are examples of some questions I may ask, so prepare to blush.


If we are using any restraints, paddles, floggers, and the like we'll talk through what respectful use of these items includes during our time together.


What happens when we meet and we don't click or one of us doesn't feel comfortable to proceed? We'll agree to give each other a safe space to say that we don't feel its going to work out without any hard feelings (yes pun intentional... lol) before we begin.


  • During

Protection, as with personal hygiene, is vital to a safe and enjoyable experience. I will provide the required protection for myself and will use it at the appropriate times.


Feedback as we progress on what feels good and what doesn't is great, let me know when it feels good, or if I need to change position or pressure. Can be as simple as harder, softer, quicker, or slower but any feedback is better than no feedback. I promise you will not hurt my feelings if you want me to change something I am doing.


Moan, scream, swear, talk dirty, the more the better. I will moan, grunt, tell you what I am enjoying, what I am going to do to you, and talk dirty back to you.


As with any regular guy, I enjoy touch so feel free to touch me as much as you want, wherever you want. Kissing, squeezing, light scratching, licking, nibbling, spanking are a few of the things I enjoy. You are welcome to treat my body as your playground but I ask that there is no deep scratching, bruising, or marking though.


If at anytime you no longer feel comfortable to continue and would like to stop simply tell me and we'll stop immediately.


  • Finishing

If you have any special thoughts about how either of us should finish, let me know up front so I can work us towards that during our time together.


  • After

After we have finished, and lying there in a tangled sweaty mess, do you want me to leave as soon as it is over or do want to snuggle/spoon afterwards? Either is perfectly acceptable to me. Personally, I enjoy holding you afterwards as we come back to earth but, if that's not your thing and you want me to exit stage left as quickly as possible, just let me know.


In the days following, please drop me some feedback and a review (there is a form at the bottom of my website) should you be willing to do so.


Hopefully the above gives you a better idea of what to expect without taking too much of the mystery/excitement out for you. It is important to get some of the practical aspects of our engagement sorted beforehand so that our time together is as fun, respectful and safe as possible.

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