About Us
A Boutique Approach to Male Companionship
Bowties was created for women who expect more.
More depth. More discretion. More intention.
We offer something rare: a private, luxurious space where you are the priority. A place where connection is unhurried, chemistry is natural, and intimacy is shaped entirely around you.
Founded in Christchurch, Bowties is evolving into a boutique companion agency representing a carefully curated selection of emotionally intelligent, impeccably presented men. Each companion is chosen not for perfection, but for presence — the ability to listen, adapt, and create experiences that feel effortless, indulgent, and deeply personal.
At our heart is trust. Every detail is handled with care and discretion, from first contact to final goodbye. This is companionship for women who value quality, privacy, and the confidence that comes from being fully seen and desired.
Our Philosophy
Built on Trust, Presence, and Discretion
We believe the most powerful connections are built on presence, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. True luxury lies not in excess, but in attention: being listened to without interruption, touched with purpose, and met exactly where you are. Our philosophy is simple:
Individual Attention
Every experience is tailored to you. Your pace, your boundaries, your desires.
Discretion & Trust
Privacy is sacred. Confidentiality is absolute.
Passion with Purpose
Intimacy should feel natural, confident, and deeply satisfying — never rushed or performative.
Empowerment
This is your space. A place to explore, reconnect, and indulge without guilt or expectation.
What We Offer
Bowties offers a refined range of luxury companionship experiences, each designed to provide escape, connection, and unforgettable intimacy. All engagements are discreet, unhurried, and shaped around your desires.
Social & Lifestyle Companionship
Elegant company for dinners, events, travel, or quiet moments shared over drinks. Intelligent conversation, effortless chemistry, and a calm, confident presence — without pressure or expectation.
Sensual Experiences
Slow, attentive, and deeply immersive. From sensual massage to intimate connection, these experiences are guided by trust, communication, and mutual comfort. Every touch is intentional, every moment unrushed.
Intimate Encounters
For women seeking profound connection and mind-blowing intimacy. Passionate yet grounded, confident yet respectful — designed to leave you feeling desired, awakened, and completely satisfied.
Overnight & Escape Experiences
Extended time together allows connection to unfold naturally. Whether an overnight stay or a private getaway, these experiences offer complete immersion — presence, pleasure, and escape from reality.
First-Time Experiences
Many clients come to Bowties having never explored companionship before. These sessions are gentle, reassuring, and pressure-free — a safe introduction built on trust, conversation, and comfort.
Designed for Women Who Value Intention
A Note on Standards
Bowties maintains exceptional standards across every experience. Companions are carefully vetted and supported, with a strong emphasis on emotional intelligence, hygiene, professionalism, and discretion. Safety, consent, and wellbeing are always paramount.
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My Story
I have been offering male companion experiences (aka male escort or sex worker, which are terms I don't associate with because they don't fully encompass what I do) for women since July 2022. Like many of my clients, I was previously in a sexless and difficult relationship that eroded my confidence. I decided not to give up on my sexuality and regain my confidence, and this is part of my journey, just as it may be yours. Add in a sprinkling of a mid-life crisis, and now I find myself doing something that I completely enjoy.
I love being a male companion for women because it's about offering something real: thoughtful connection, emotional ease, and respectful presence. I enjoy taking pride in tailoring each experience around what you’re truly seeking. My approach is to provide you with the evening of your desires, whatever they may be. I get pleasure and satisfaction by providing that to you, and seeing you experiencing just that.
Many of my clients are exploring this for the first time, and for me, it's about creating a space where they feel safe, seen, pampered, and heard brings me a deep sense of fulfilment. My goal is to be the person who gives you space to feel wanted again, without pressure—just companionship, trust, and quiet luxury.
From the beginning, it became clear to me that what I provide is important and valuable to my clients, and I love working with each one of them. It's always the most amazing adventure. The more I do this, the more I see that there is no shame in offering or using services like mine; in fact, it's empowering.