Is this your first time considering the use of a straight male escort or companion? If so, hopefully you are reading this as part of your research. I'll share with you what you should look for and what you can expect. And apologies upfront for any and all mansplaining.
The majority of new contacts I receive are women who have never been with a male escort or companion before, nor have ever considered it until recently. It's clear to me that more woman than ever before are thinking about companionship services to meet some very important needs. The reasons for this, from chatting with my first-time clients, is that women are wanting more control of this area of their lives. This may be driven by a busy career, a sexless marriage, a recent separation, a string of poor partners, or just seeking more sexual confidence.
Making contact with someone like myself may seem like a big step but hopefully I can share a few points with you about the process.
How do I go about safely choosing a male escort or companion?
Think about what you want. Before you start, devote time to thinking about what you are wanting to experience and importantly, what you are not wanting to experience. Be clear with yourself about why you are doing this and build a fantasy about what you are after.
Don't be afraid to say what you want. This may sound easy, but it's usually the most difficult bit. Articulating your sexual fantasy or needs to a complete stranger may be hard for some, but doing so will help ensure you get the experience you are paying for. Practise saying it out loud if needed. For me to plan a great engagement for you, the more upfront you are the better... plus I have probably heard it before.
Don't be afraid to start small. Getting straight into sex may not be the best way to start, so consider starting with a more platonic session to see if he will meet your needs. I often meet with clients for coffee or drinks first to see if there is a connection.
Respect and confidentiality. You are letting someone into a very private part of your life so ensure that your preferred companion shows respect and confidentiality in their interactions with you.
What should you expect from a session with a male escort or companion like me?
A great time. That's the objective; to provide you with the experience you were after, to leave you smiling. No matter the type of engagement, this is what I aim to deliver.
Hygienic. A fun time starts by ensuring that the right level of protection is in play at all times and that personal hygiene is part of the preparation and features throughout. I will always be on time, clean and will have the required protection. From your side I will ask that you shower before each intimate engagement.
Tell me what you like and let me take control. Too much planning takes the spontaneous fun out of it, so let me know what turns you on and I will work to that.
Listen to your needs. Sometimes things feel good, sometimes they don't, or sometimes you like things done in a particular way. I will always be listening to you and reading the signs and adjusting my technique.
Don't be shy. This is far easier said than done. Own your body and your desires, the benefit of being with a companion is that we are here to provide just that.
If its your first time and you are considering using my services then I have a few options for you to consider. I am happy to chat with you (via text or call) and answer any questions you may have, or we could also setup a platonic engagement.
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