Your First Time Booking a Male Escort: What to Expect

Is this your first time considering the services of a straight male escort or companion? If so, welcome—you’re in the right place. Most of the enquiries I receive are from women just like you: curious, maybe a little nervous, and often exploring this for the very first time.

It’s becoming more common than ever for women to seek out companionship as a way of meeting their needs—whether that’s reclaiming control of their sex life, boosting confidence, or simply enjoying intimacy without the strings attached. For some, it’s about escaping the stress of a busy career. For others, it might come after a separation, a sexless marriage, or a series of disappointing partners. Whatever your reason, it’s about making an empowering choice for yourself.

How to Choose the Right Companion

1. Decide What You Want

Take some time to think about what you’re really looking for. Are you craving intimacy, conversation, adventure—or simply the thrill of feeling desired again? Just as important: know what you don’t want.

2. Be Honest About Your Desires

This is often the hardest part, but honesty is key. Talking openly about your fantasies or boundaries might feel awkward at first, but the more upfront you are, the better your experience will be. Remember—I’ve probably heard it before.

3. Start Slow

You don’t have to jump straight into the deep end. Many first-time clients begin with a coffee, a drink, or a casual dinner date. This gives you the chance to relax, see if there’s chemistry, and decide how you’d like things to progress.

4. Prioritise Respect & Confidentiality

Discretion is essential. You’re letting someone into a very personal part of your life, so it’s important that your chosen companion values privacy, respect, and trust just as much as you do.

What You Can Expect with Me

A Focus on You

The goal is simple: to give you the experience you’re after and leave you smiling. Whether that’s a sensual evening, a confidence boost, or just being pampered and listened to, this time is all about you.

Hygiene & Safety

I always arrive on time, freshly showered, well-dressed, and fully prepared with everything needed for a safe experience. I’ll ask the same of you—clean, comfortable, and ready to enjoy yourself.

Spontaneity & Connection

Planning has its place, but chemistry thrives in the moment. Share what excites you, and then let me take the lead in creating a fun, natural experience.

Listening & Adjusting

Every woman is different. I’ll pay close attention to your needs, your cues, and your comfort level, adjusting as we go. Your pleasure and ease always come first.

Confidence Without Judgment

This is your space to embrace your desires, explore your fantasies, and feel desirable again. No judgment, no pressure—just connection and confidence.

Ready to Take the First Step?

If you’re curious about companionship but not quite ready to dive straight in, we can start small. I’m happy to answer your questions by text or call, or we could arrange a relaxed, platonic meeting first.

Whatever you choose, the most important thing is that it feels right for you. And when you’re ready, I’ll be here to make sure your first experience is one you’ll never forget.

A Little About Me

My name is Mark and I have been running Bowties, which tailors bespoke platonic and intimate experiences for our female clients, for over 4 years now. I am in my mid-forties and I love nothing more than creating the most personalised and client-centric memories for you. I hope I can share a little of what you can expect when you book someone like me to fulfill your innermost desire. You can read more about me here and my services here.

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